Category Living

8 November, 2024

I shared yesterday’s post with a few people in my life with whom I share many perspectives, and for whom I have enormous respect both intellectually and personally. One provided the response below:

“Dear Eddie,
Cannot have that dark dark piece be the last word, as true as it appears right now. Musings:
I believe that character, kindness and decency matter.  
I certainly feel betrayed by my countryfolk.
My friend, (an African-American man), who knows a thing or two about loving a country that has often betrayed him, tells me this country has always fought for every small step  and that he swears things are better now than when he finished college in 1968.

Etty Hillesum knew a great deal about the evil in the world and she wrote:
“Ultimately, we have just one moral duty: to reclaim l...

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7 November, 2024

Another day of feeling stunned. Just not processing well. A friend sent me this, which I find frighteningly on point:

“A friend sent this. It is from Christopher Robichaud, Senior Lecturer at the Harvard School of Government. I don’t know where she found it. 

I’ll say this, and then I likely won’t be saying much more on here for quite some time, to the relief of some, I’m sure. But my farewell warning is this.

Everyone in the days and weeks ahead will use this loss as an opportunity to seek validation for their own hobby horse complaint. Harris lost because she campaigned with Liz Cheney. Harris lost because she didn’t embrace Gaza. Harris lost because she didn’t choose Shapiro. Harris lost because she wasn’t progressive enough (possibly my favorite one).

Take a good hard...

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4 October, 2024

Friday’s dives here in Cabo Pulmo were just wonderful. First, we had a very experienced and responsive dive guide, Gerrardo (“Gerry,” please), and the same group of 6 divers as Thursday. Two in our party are friends from Valencia, Spain; the Ricardos (both have the same names) spotty English, but very funny and engaging gents.

The other two, Kate and Dom, are from Portland, OR. We’ve connected well with them, enjoy meals together, etc. They’re former dive instructors and guides who met and worked together for years in Malaysia. They’re mid-30s and, inevitably, when we meet folks in that age range, we wish our kids were here to meet them and engage. They’ve been back in Portland for 8 years, where they started a photography business (weddings, etc.) that seems to be thriving...

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3 October, 2024

A good first day here. (Some pix below.) As always, going to a new place and dive operation means learning how they do things. Several firsts for us.

We brought our gear over to the area with the restaurant, dive shop, pool. This area is not on the water. The guides put our gear on the boat, set things up (partially). When all loaded up, a tractor pulled the boat to the beach, and we (6 divers and a guide) walked 5 minutes to get there ourselves. We got on the boat, check over our gear–glad we did, as their setup was not complete. Then we’re off to the first site, La Esperanza.

The dives here in the Marine Park are limited to 45 minutes, so these were not to be long dives, at all. La Esperanza was a blah dive, with not much to see in terms of reef or wildlife...

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2 October, 2024

Cabo Pulmo, Baja

Today was a very long travel day, beginning with a 2am wakeup. Uber pickup at 3am, at the airport before 3:30 for our 5am flight. The lines were extraordinarily long when we arrived at the airport, as the entire RDU tech system used by check-in agents and gate agents was down.

Somehow, even though we didn’t check our bag until 4:20, we made it through TSA and got to our gate as they were boarding. Even more surprisingly, the plane was fully loaded and boarded in time to get us off the ground on time.

Our 2:45 flight arrived at DFW early, and had a 3-hour layover. We searched for some superglue somewhere in the airport, to fix the break in my eyeglasses’ frame–turns out stepping on your glasses isn’t a good idea...

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August 2, 2024

“This constant lying is not aimed at making the people believe a lie, but at ensuring that no one believes anything anymore. A people that can no longer distinguish between truth and lies cannot distinguish between right and wrong. And such a people, deprived of the power to think and judge, is, without knowing and willing it, completely subjected to the rule of lies. With such a people, you can do whatever you want.”
—Hannah Arendt, German historian and philosopher (1906–1975)

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Monday, October 23, 2023

What if we took a different approach to our curriculum in music training? What if we start with what our students are making with music–the repertoire they’re preparing–and base all other classes on that music?

In the spring semester, ensemble, opera, and chamber music directors select their repertoire for the coming year. Then, with that repertoire shared with those who teach core classes (theory, ear-training, keyboard harmony, conducting, history), the core classes can use that music to draw examples for study, analysis, exercises, etc.

Perhaps that might broaden the impact of the curriculum–all students in their early years (the “core” years) would be studying the same works of music, though at different levels of sophistication...

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Sunday, October 15, 2023

So much going on in our world, very little of it encouraging.

To find the elements of optimism, at least for me, I need to look at the smaller circles, the closer orbits. Two thriving grandsons, healthy, smart, loving, each mischievous in their own ways. And they’re fortunate to have two loving parents who’re effective at allowing their imaginations thrive, but also at providing clear limits. I found great energy and inspiration in my visit to their home last weekend, and in that house, there is nothing but optimism.

As I look at my own home, I am grateful that we’re all dealing with our various health situations effectively, and are in good shape. Thankfully, we’re all living with things that are treatable, and that puts us in a category of very fortunate people.

And Patti...

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